The clinics I have taken part in this summer have really given me an appreciation for how far I have come on this path and also for how far I still have to go before I get anywhere close to where I want to be. Thinking about the things I have learned, it occurred to me that I could probably put together a simple list of things that I had to change to become the horseman I am now and write a little bit about each one in the hope they might help other people on a similar path. Unfortunately I am physically incapable of writing a little bit of anything, so each point ended up as a post in its own right, but I’ll put the list here and link each point as I add them.
The ten essential lessons I have learned so far, are these:
- You need to be able to say no.
- Be effective.
- Offer the horse a sweet spot.
- Energy is not direction
- Never allow your horse to pull
- Everything is details
- You can be too careful
- Don’t change the question because you haven’t got the right answer yet.
- Don’t be afraid to experiment – find what works.
- You can always do less, you can always get more